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Teaching Foster Kids

4/20/2015

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Tonight, I was having a conversation with my parents about the difficulties that come with trying to teach a foster child. Taking in a child at any age poses some questions regarding how to teach them. What do they already know? What do they need to know?
Teaching a child is not just about how to add or read. You probably don't even realize how much you teach to the children in your life on a daily basis, starting from the time they're infants. From coos of "Hi pretty baby," to repeating your name over and over in hopes of that being the baby's first word, you're strengthening an infant's listening abilities and preparing them for speech. A toddler grows up knowing where to go when you say it's dinner time, or which direction to run from when you say it's time for bed. It's all second nature; you don't walk around telling your two-year-old that you're walking from the kitchen to the living room, but over the course of daily life, a young child will learn so much.

For a child in foster care, the odds are stacked against them when it comes to learning. Chances are, unfortunately, that no one has been sitting and talking to these children since they were infants. No one has probably given them the full attention that they need, or really tried to teach them anything. Aside from the learning that occurs when you're not realizing, most people are usually teaching their young kids the difference between over and under, apples or bananas, or yellow and blue. Kids that go into foster care probably weren't taught any of that.

As a foster parent, you always need to backtrack and think of the most basic parts of life that a child knows. How many cookies are there if you put 2 cookies on the table? If it's snowing out, do you put on a bathing suit or a coat? If you're hungry, do you want food or a drink? You need to go back and teach a new foster child which room is the bathroom and which is the living room. Tell them that their new brother is a boy, and their new sister is a girl. A shirt goes on your upper body and pants go over your legs. A dog barks, and a cow moos, and people will forever be asking why the chicken crossed the road. These kids need to learn as much as they can from their foster parents, because when they leave that house for the last time, there's no guaranteeing that they'll be taught anything else from their bio parents. You're the best resource that foster child has, so you need to make the most of it while you can. And when you get frustrated because they say that the sky is brown? Well in the words of my mom, at least they're naming a color and not saying that the sky is 3.

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    My family started doing foster care when I was three years old. We took in nineteen children over the course of eighteen years, with our last placement leaving in December 2014. I'm the only biological child in my family, though my parents adopted five of my siblings.

    I love to share my perspective on the foster care system and share how my unique upbringing shaped my life.

    I'm also a Cast Member at Walt Disney World and lover of all things Disney! My career allows me the opportunity to find a little bit of Magic in life every day.


    I enjoy sharing my journey as a writer as well. Find my children's books on Amazon and keep following my blog for updates on future books that I'll be releasing!

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